The Orgasmic Dichotomy

Orgasms. They’re pretty great. It’s amazing what lengths (no pun intended) people will go to achieve one. The great sundry of internet porn available to the masses indicates just how varied our needs are. At any given moment, a new fetish is being indulged satisfy even the unique orgasm needs.  But how can we ensure we’re getting what we need?

What men, and even most women, don’t realize is that there are two types of orgasms. Yes, women can achieve two very different climaxes: vaginal and clitoral. The best analogy I can think of involves food (of course it does).

Starting with the most basic, vaginal orgasms are similar to chocolate cake. Chocolate cake is delicious. It’s familiar. It makes you feel dreamy inside for a few shining moments. Ending your night with chocolate cake is satisfying and definitely worthwhile.

But not every woman has wandered beyond the boundaries of the vaginal orgasm. The clitoral orgasm is the pinnacle of the female sexual experience. Keeping with the dessert metaphor, a clitoral orgasm is the equivalent of crème brulee served with a bottle of Veuve Cliquot and presented on a stack of $100 bills. I’m really not kidding.

I think it’s important for men and women alike to be aware and to strive for a clitoral orgasm. A guy who knows how to address this is worth his weight in gold. Boys, let me clarify something for you: oral sex is a two way street. And while I realize blow jobs are the male equivalent of flowers, please understand girls enjoy a little oral action too.

Different girls have varying degrees of sensitivity and needs. The most important thing you can do is explore. Trial and error is inevitable, but if both parties make it their prerogative to satisfy each other completely, sex will be more worthwhile and satisfying – both on a physical level and an emotional level. In other words, never underestimate the power of a good orgasm.